Online Dating Quick-Start Guide

Discover my simple strategy for dating smart, not hard…

So you can choose compatible dating sites, healthy partners, and even create a rockin’ profile!

NEW: Online Dating Quick-Start Guide creates your personalized cheat-sheet on how to get started dating online…even if you are not a tech or electronics guru

There’s so much competition🤼‍♂️ online. And if you are like me when I was dating online, you’d love for someone to show you exactly what NOT 🚧to do and how to do it well. But when when you start to jump online you realize that creating profiles, choosing dating sites, and picking a partner is really hard.

First, you consider jumping on Tinder since everyone talks about how easy it is. Then you look at the app to see what all the fuss is about and you can’t fathom how anyone picks a partner from a little picture🤳🏼. After that, you look for help from other sites and apps and realize they all look the same and you can’t stand all these features and functions. And what is a boost anyways?

Those are the just some of the questions I had when I dated online and heard repeated by many clients over the years.

So, I did what anyone would do … I turned to the Internet🤷🏼‍♀️.

The Limitations of Google

Unfortunately, the Internet didn’t help much…

While I was able to get an overview on online dating, I wasn’t able to find the do-this, do-that, step-by-step guide I wanted. Which was annoying because I wasn’t interested in spending hours on end trying to figure this stuff out.

I also didn’t want to sift through tons of useless information. Of course, that’s exactly what happened …

I’d spend hours clicking one link after another, trying to get to the “good” stuff. Before I knew it, I’d have dozens of browser tabs open and half my day would be gone. Worse still, I’d be more confused 🤷🏼‍♂️than I was before I started!

It seemed like the people who wrote articles about this kind of stuff couldn’t agree on anything.

… one person would claim you should put your picture on the app and swipe away.

… then the next one would say Instagram is how you meet people today, not an app.

And so on … It was super-frustrating.

After coming across conflicting advice more times than I could count, I started paying more attention to who was actually offering the advice.

What I discovered left me dumbfounded😫.

Most of the so-called dating “experts” have little-to-no real-world experience and no real professional training. Either they only give easily googled information OR – They know about their personal experiences and ideas without any real strategy or process OR WORSE – They’re writers blogging about relationships with zero experience in families or relationships… making them unqualified to give anyone dating or relationship help.

Which is why you can’t trust much of what you read online about how to get started with online dating.

Why Many People Give Up On Their Dreams

I wish the problems I experienced when I first started out were unusual, but they’re not. Virtually everyone who wants to date online goes through something similar. Along the way, most of them decide the process is too:

  • Difficult😣
  • Confusing🤨
  • Frustrating😤 and
  • Time-Consuming😴

That’s why plenty of smart people give up on their dreams of creating a love that lasts a lifetime. It’s not that they CAN’T do it … they can.
Figuring out all the details when you’ve got little free time and bills to pay is such a huge pain. I totally understand that because I went through it all myself.

And while I *did* manage to make sense of it eventually, it took:

  • More months than I care to think about,
  • Plenty of dating mistakes, and
  • A lot of banging my head against the wall before I reached that place.

The good news is that you don’t need to go through that, because I’m about to share with you the absolute easiest way for you to start dating online the smart way.

That’s Why I’m Excited To Tell You About My NEW Online Dating Guide

It’s designed for people like you … people who have had relationships end and find themselves starting all over but the dating scene has changed so much. The Online Dating Quick-Start Guide is your easy, step-by-step guide for choosing dating sites, crafting a shining profile, and finding compatible partners. And, because I give you step by step instructions on setting up your bumble account and profile, it even works if you hate technology. In fact, by the time you get to the end of it, you’ll have an entire cheat-sheet on what to put in your profile, what app to use, and what partners to avoid!!

That’s because my course will ease your fears of getting started online. Want someone to tell you what to write? It’s in the course. Interested in knowing what games to watch out for so you don’t get caught up in a scam? Yep, that’s in there too.

In the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide, I show you the easiest ways to add pizzazz to your boring profile, avoid pitfalls of online dating like ghosting or bread-crumbing, spot a healthy partner and how to promote yourself online. But that’s not all. In the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide, you’ll also get my secret strategies for saving massive amounts of time and money along the way. Because if you’re like most people, you don’t have enough of either. That’s why my course is designed to help you succeed, even if you have very little:

  • Money 💲
  • Time 🕐 or
  • Experience 💞

For instance …

View screenshots of real dating profiles that suck so you are never surprised

You can view exact screen shots of real dating profiles that suck 💥 so that you are never surprised what you may find online. … IF you use the secret time-saving tactic I teach in my course.

Plus, I even show you an easy method for understanding hidden motives behind toxic dating patterns.

It’s so amazing that I promise you it works even if …

  • You’re not a social person (you can be)
  • You don’t think you’re good at starting conversations (you will be)
  • Thinking about how people will react to your negatives has you feeling low (I’ll show you how)
  • You think online dating is weird or desperate (it won’t be)

But the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide doesn’t just teach how to spot unhealthy dating partners. With my course, you’ll also learn super easy methods for identifying your dream partner and talking about your own negative qualities. 

You Don’t Need to Be Ready to Date Right Away

Now, at this point, some of you might be thinking …

The course sounds great, but am I really capable of doing this?

Don’t I need to have a perfect body to find a dream partner???

Allow me to answer that.

First, the people falling in love online are NOT more attractive than you. They’re not smarter, they don’t come from a “better” family, and they aren’t just lucky. The only difference between you and them is that they have information and a system that you don’t. This course levels the playing field. It gives you straightforward, no-fluff information—based on my 19 years of experience in counseling—so you learn step-by-step what you need to do to be successful. The course was designed with someone like you in mind. Someone who’s never done this before and needs a blueprint that’ll break it all down for them.

Write about yourself positively, even if you think you are not desirable

I will give you an easy way to identify your best traits that you will feel proud to put online. Even better, you’ll learn how to take your negative ideas about yourself and re-brand these so that you are not ashamed of negatives. Many years ago I dated online, using some of the problems you’ll learn about in the course. While I expected it to be a hard process, I was shocked by how hard it is to be authentic online. I even accidentally 😮misled someone online from not knowing what to do with my negatives about myself.

Think of it like this. If you tried to tackle a paint-by-number kit without knowing which color went with each number, it would be pretty hard. Next-to-impossible even. But if you had the key—showing you which color went where—imagine how easy it would seem. Heck, anybody could paint a nice picture with the key, regardless of their skill level. The same thing is true about online dating.

Try to do it on your own, and it’s confusing and overwhelming … like tackling a paint-by-number without the key. But have someone give you the key and what a difference. Suddenly, it all seems super-easy. That’s because it IS … when you have someone to show you the ropes.

You’ll ALSO Learn how to choose a compatible partner

I don’t just show you how to create a clear aim for online dating in the course. I also teach you how to make sure your matches are a good fit for you—so you can have the happy ending you desire.

That’s why I included an entire module on compatibility in the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide.

In that module, we cover how compatibility works and how to understand when you have a great partner based on your own unique traits. We will go over how different personalities partner well together and why some relationships seem to struggle more than others. 

And that’s the kind of stuff I’ll show you in the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide.

Honestly, this information is so powerful, it has the potential to transform your dating life.

There’s nothing I teach in the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide that you can’t do.

Commit To Your Success Today

Right now, you’re reading this because there’s something you want more of in your dating life. Either you want more quality matches… or you wish you had more time to devote to finding a partner that makes you want to come home at night … or you’d like to feel like there are still some good partners left to date.

You can have ALL those things with the Online Dating Quick-Start Guide.

Imagine that for a moment.

What would change for you if right now, you committed to creating a better future for yourself, by following the exact steps I outline in the course?

Could you start finding compatible dates faster?

Yeah, actually—you could.

In fact, you’d be surprised if you knew how attainable that goal actually is. Dating sites don’t do their jobs, but with a process it’s easier and way more fun. That’s why finding compatible dates faster is not unreasonable—at all.

There’s seriously a ton of amazing dates for people who know what they’re doing—and you’ll be one of them once you take my course. Imagine being in control of your online dating experience rather than just trusting your swipes are helping. Because let’s be honest, big corporations like Match Group do not usually have our best interests in mind.

But the potential to date smarter, not harder is just a click away. 

Course Overview:

I’ll also show you why so many people find it hard to date online … so you’re not faced with the awkward experience of rejecting someone who is a bad fit. It will help you feel confident and less confused as you sort through profiles. We will view the worst profiles I found in 2019 and learn what NOT to share. 

If you’ve thought online dating was too “tough” to tackle, think again. Let me show you how to spot online daters who are serious about finding a partner so you don’t have to waste your valuable time on someone who is confused about their goals. When you date online, you will want to use this no games strategy for success. 

Talking about yourself online is as easy as can be, once you know what you’re doing. I will give you a quick tool to use so that you know exactly what is great about your personality without having to resort to over-sharing to get noticed.  

Learn the top strategies I have used to coach hundreds of clients in choosing compatible partners. You will learn how to choose a partner who has traits that fit seamlessly into your life. 

Crafting a profile and choosing sites can take some time out of your busy schedule🏃🏼‍♂️. I will show you how to choose the dating sites that you are most suited for, how to set up a profile account in Bumble, and even how to add flare that helps you get noticed.

When you join me for this course, you will also get a bonus lesson on the most toxic dating patterns to help you avoid traps online. And if you really want to transform your dating life, you can get personal help from me and extra lessons when you join the LOVE HUB community at checkout. 

Bonus! Join our online community

When you purchase a course with Renew The Love, you will get the option to join my exclusive online community where you will get access to my personal help instead of the normal DIY way of online courses. Just purchase a course, and select your LOVE HUB upgrade today.

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