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Shawn Davis Readiness to date occurs once you have healed your heart of damage from the past and feel energized for love. I help singles ready their heart by working through deep self healing.

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Phase 1 - UnAnchoring From The Past

When you start working with me, you will likely start here. This is where you work towards healing from your lost dreams and hopes. The aim in Phase 1 of the program will be to work  towards a deeper self healing so that you can unglue yourself from the pain of heartbreak.  


Step 2 - Mend Self Esteem 

Once the healing from the grief starts to take shape, we start to integrate more self esteem work that helps you make the transition from pain into hope and dreams for future you want to be a part of and thrive in. 


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The final phase of moving on after heartbreak is to work on preparedness for the dating experience, navigating away from scams and clever actors in dating environments, and not making dating your entire life when you feel so alone. 

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I'm happily married in Tampa, Florida where my husband and I raise our son. I've been in the helping field since 2000 and now I want to bring my professional experience to help you love smart through all phases of love. Plus, I'm not afraid to be real and drop an occasional f-bomb when appropriate.  😲🤷🏽‍♀️

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